Monday, March 8, 2010

Fly Lady, Fly

I know that Passover is around the corner (and you will see a related post about it soon), and everyone seems to talk about cleaning the house in preparation. I keep telling myself that it’s as easy as having our cleaning lady over a few days prior and packing up all the chometz in the house to “sell” (or eating a lot more so there’s less to pack). A friend of mine keeps a blog about how she is de-cluttering her home. Someone had suggested that she check out FlyLady.net to help herself get more organized.

As a result of this suggestion, I decided to check out the site and see what the deal was. To anyone first checking it out, it looks extremely overwhelming. However, I decided to sign up as a beginner and get all the e-mails in digest format. There’s a disclaimer that you should never try to catch up and just pick up from wherever the process is when you first get the e-mails. They don’t want to overwhelm new readers in any way. I find a lot of validity in what is being presented, but I still need some self-motivation. I’ve decided to tackle the house one room at a time. I am planning to start with the kitchen since that’s the most cluttered room of the house. Even more cluttered than our bedroom or the utility room, in my opinion. Sometimes our weekly sitter will help straighten up in the kitchen, but it ends up becoming a disaster anyway. I need to figure out a new system soon! It doesn’t help that there’s a giant box amidst all the clutter. This box is our new oven and it will be installed a week and a half before Pesach. I don’t know if that will throw off our non-Pesach cooking, but I guess we won’t have pizza in there for a while, unless it’s made of matzah!

Also, I recently received an e-mail requesting items for a Jewish community in Ukraine. Great way to de-clutter and also perform a mitzvah. I think Hashem wanted this all to come together (my need for organization and this mitzvah opportunity that happened to stand out to me from all my other e-mails).

Anyway, FlyLady thinks that 15 minutes is enough time each day to tackle the room or area of the week. I am obsessive and need to get it all done in one straight shot, if possible. I’ll put on Pandora radio and get cracking. I’m going to attempt this while my husband is in the middle of making Journey’s End soup, but there’s room in the kitchen for both of us. It will be nice to have his company during my “mission.” Wish me luck!

3 comments:

Marion Miller said...

Keep up the good work Melissa! You have to start somewhere. By the way, I am obsessive too, and 15 minutes is never enough for me. But with kids I have had to learn that I rarely get to finish what I started. Good luck!
Marion

Caroline said...

I find flylady to be incredibly overwhelming, but I'm also like you--I don't want to start it unless I can finish it at the same time. This is one of my general struggles with cleaning, but I'm working hard to get past it. Sometimes, the 15 minutes when chicken nuggets are in the oven are the PERFECT time to whip through whatever can be done in that time frame. It's almost a challenge because you know you will get a reward--food!--at the end.

I also struggled on Shabbat because I wanted to get something done within the parameters of keeping Shabbat. For me, that meant reading my stack of magazines so I could get rid of them and tossing clothing that I don't wear anyway into a bag to be donated.

Caroline said...

Also, I need to come up with a "maintenance plan" for once my house is sparkling. Do I need to schedule vacuuming, dusting, shredding, etc.? (Probably.) I'm pretty good about scrubbing the bathroom on Friday afternoons...