I've been blogging with three fabulous women for over two years and have been enjoying all the fun topics we come up with week after week. If you want to see what we've discussed in the past, check out our posts here.
This week, Moma Rock chose the topic: Trade places with someone for a day. Tell us what it was like to be in their shoes, to view the world through their eyes. Did you learn something from the experience?
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
For this project, I chose my mom. I thought it would be fun to see what life is like through the eyes of someone in my family and I asked my parents and sister. My mom (bravely) volunteered and I sent her some questions. While her answers are succinct, they are revealing.
What is the first thing you usually think about when you wake up?
I think about the day ahead.
What are you thinking on your drive to and/or from work?
When I come home from work I think about making dinner and relaxing from a hard day.
What is your typical day like from when you get up to when you go to bed?
Hectic
How do you deal with changes to your daily routine?
Not well at all.
Would you rather be at work or have days with nothing on your schedule?
Days of nothing to do at all.
What do you look forward to most during the day?
Going home from work at the end of the day.
What is your favorite way to relax after work?
Sit on the couch, watch TV and pet the dog.
What chore/errand is your least favorite?
Take out the garbage.
What is the last thing you usually think about before going to sleep?
What I have to do tomorrow.
What would you like to accomplish by this time next year?
Be retired and have more time to do nothing.
When I was a kid, I remember my mom working part-time so she could be home for us when we got home from school. There were periods of time when she worked full-time and made other arrangements for us. However, the amount of time she was around definitely stands out. She'd have an after school snack waiting and was so nice to our friends when they came over. I also know that she wasn't always an X-Ray technician, even though she has been one for the majority of her life. During my youth, she was a receptionist for a while. I was impressed that she went back into the X-Ray field after her thumb injury, but times had changed and the equipment was safer. I also know that she's worked for many different medical facilities, the longest amount of time being at her current facility. I've heard both the good and bad things about her job between the friends she's made and all the politics that go on, even within a medical office. The free food from drug reps sound like a nice perk. She also gets days off during the week, even with the long days she has to work otherwise. I wish she had revealed more about what an actual day in her life is like, but I can relate to the hectic part. I also don't like getting thrown off from my routine. I think she's become completely burnt out by her job though and I hope she'll enjoy her "nothing" filled days once she gets to retire. I know she'll end up shopping or cleaning the house for the most part. I'm sure she'll save some time for reading, as well. I was not that surprised that taking out garbage is her least favorite chore, since she seems to enjoy cleaning and doing laundry.
While there are days I wouldn't mind having some time off that isn't focused on taking kids to the doctor or doing errands, I also don't know what I'd do without structure to my day. There was a point in time when I wasn't working while I lived in NJ. My older son was in day care so I could focus on finding a job and be free to go on interviews, as needed. I don't know what I did with the rest of my time. Lots of trips to Target and the grocery store, perhaps? I do that even with a job, but have to plan it on weekends. It's nice when I'm able to go to the stores on my own because the kids get antsy and I lose track of what I was supposed to get. I especially love shopping by myself (or with another adult) at the thrift store. I don't mind bribing the kids with toys, but as soon as I look at clothes, they start kvetching. I can only imagine what I was like when my mom made us go to T.J. Maxx all the time. They didn't even have toys back then! There are also times I'd like to take a vacation just for myself so I can sit by a pool and read all day.
Overall, I guess I never really understood how much my mom craves freedom, even though she doesn't have to worry about anyone else's schedule except for her own (and possibly my dad's). I hope that her career was fulfilling to her in some way, and not just seen as a job. I'd like that for myself too. I love where I work, but sometimes I feel unmotivated and unfulfilled. I know I have time to change all that and make an impact through my job so that it can become my career. Getting into my mom's head gives me a lot to think about and answers some things that were nagging at me. I also think we're more alike than I normally would have admitted.
Friday, June 28, 2013
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
52 Stories: Running Girl
Inspired by One Hundred Names by Cecelia Ahern, I've decided to ask people some thought provoking questions about themselves, as I feel that everyone has a story to tell. If you're just joining me on this journey today, please check out the previous posts from this series, as well.
This week's storyteller found my blog, thanks to Francine LaSala spreading the word. She took an interest in "52 Stories," so I invited her to participate. I admired her enthusiasm for answering the questions and have enjoyed getting to know her in this way. Her debut novel, Modogamous, will be published soon. You can pre-order it and help animals at the same time!
Name: Karen E. Martin
Age: If you know the answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything, you know how old I am. ;)
Gender: Female
Location: Columbus, OH
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
Probably one of the most memorable moments of my life was when my bestie and I went to the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver. We were in Whistler village one evening after a whirlwind day of events, and the Medals Ceremony was being televised throughout the pedestrian area. We’d seen Bode win the gold earlier that day, and were already on an adrenline high from the amazing week we’d had thus far. We both stopped in our tracks, doffed our ski caps, and started singing the U.S. National Anthem as the screens showed Old Glory being hoisted. Out of nowhere, a man’s voice joined in our singing as he stepped up next to us to honor the flag. It was truly a beautiful moment. ‘Merica! *giggle*
What is your guilty pleasure?
I hate to admit it, but it’s probably reality TV. I watch Survivor (it’s my favorite show), The Biggest Loser, Chopped, So You Think You Can Dance, and sometimes Big Brother. I like reality shows because, ironically, they’re a break from reality.
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
Go on safari in Africa. I’ve visited about 50 countries, and lived in North/West Africa for 2.5 years, but I never made it down to the Big Game areas of the continent. It’s my next big travel dream.
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
I’m not sure I could part with my favorite things. I don’t have a ton of “stuff,” but what I do have, I’ve picked up during my travels. It all has special meaning to me and helps me remember times past. If anything, I would probably give some heirloom jewelry I have to the ladies in my family, I guess. It would mean more to them than my little trinkets anyway.
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
I remember one incident in particular. I was working in rural southeastern Morocco as a Peace Corps Volunteer. One day, going stir crazy, I decided to go out and take a jog, even though it’s something girls or women didn’t really do around town. (As a foreigner, I got a bit more leeway and was considered somewhat eccentric anyway, I’m sure.) As I was jogging through one of the old ksars (mud-wall villages), a crowd of kids gathered by the side of the street, pointing and shouting. Through the middle of the cacaphony, I heard one little girl’s voice: “Look, it’s a girl—running!” I don’t think she’d ever seen that happen before; I’d like to think it changed her outlook and opened up her world just a little bit. I also started the first girls’ basketball team in town, which is rather laughable if you are familiar with my (lack of) skills at round ball.
What part of your personality is now extinct?
I don’t know…I guess that naivete that we all experience as children. I may have lost my childish innocence, but I do try to retain a childlike wonder at the world and all the amazing things it has to offer.
What is one thing that you find really funny?
Arrested Development. It gets funnier every time I watch it.
Tell me about a gift you'd like to get yourself, where money is not an issue.
I’d really like to be able to pick out whatever car I wanted. Right now I drive a ‘96 Honda Civic, and while it’s a great car (and will probably outlive me), it doesn’t fit much gear in it for road trips. I go camping a lot, so I really wish I could get a vehicle with more cargo space and that would be tough enough to haul a trailer if I wanted to do that. Cuz yeah, that’s just what I need…a trailer, which would encourage me to accumulate even more gear. ;) Secondarily, I’d love to get one of those huge, marvelous yurt-style tents, so I could make my camp set-up into a plush, getaway oasis. Oh yes, and two strapping lads to set the thing up for me, lol.
What TV show, book or movie is most like your life?
For my childhood, I would’ve said Roseanne. We were that kind of family (at least the way I saw it). Now? I’m not sure. I really don’t think there’s currently a show out there that represents my demographic. That Girl, or Murphy Brown, perhaps? Man, I’m really dating myself with those ones, aren’t I? Ooh, how about Laverne & Shirley? Yeah, that’s probably a little more descriptive of my goofy shenanigans.
What is something that not many people know about you?
I may seem like a very social extrovert, but I’m mostly a big ol’ homebody. I love people, but I also need a lot of quiet time at home.
This week's storyteller found my blog, thanks to Francine LaSala spreading the word. She took an interest in "52 Stories," so I invited her to participate. I admired her enthusiasm for answering the questions and have enjoyed getting to know her in this way. Her debut novel, Modogamous, will be published soon. You can pre-order it and help animals at the same time!
Name: Karen E. Martin
Age: If you know the answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything, you know how old I am. ;)
Gender: Female
Location: Columbus, OH
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
Probably one of the most memorable moments of my life was when my bestie and I went to the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver. We were in Whistler village one evening after a whirlwind day of events, and the Medals Ceremony was being televised throughout the pedestrian area. We’d seen Bode win the gold earlier that day, and were already on an adrenline high from the amazing week we’d had thus far. We both stopped in our tracks, doffed our ski caps, and started singing the U.S. National Anthem as the screens showed Old Glory being hoisted. Out of nowhere, a man’s voice joined in our singing as he stepped up next to us to honor the flag. It was truly a beautiful moment. ‘Merica! *giggle*
What is your guilty pleasure?
I hate to admit it, but it’s probably reality TV. I watch Survivor (it’s my favorite show), The Biggest Loser, Chopped, So You Think You Can Dance, and sometimes Big Brother. I like reality shows because, ironically, they’re a break from reality.
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
Go on safari in Africa. I’ve visited about 50 countries, and lived in North/West Africa for 2.5 years, but I never made it down to the Big Game areas of the continent. It’s my next big travel dream.
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
I’m not sure I could part with my favorite things. I don’t have a ton of “stuff,” but what I do have, I’ve picked up during my travels. It all has special meaning to me and helps me remember times past. If anything, I would probably give some heirloom jewelry I have to the ladies in my family, I guess. It would mean more to them than my little trinkets anyway.
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
I remember one incident in particular. I was working in rural southeastern Morocco as a Peace Corps Volunteer. One day, going stir crazy, I decided to go out and take a jog, even though it’s something girls or women didn’t really do around town. (As a foreigner, I got a bit more leeway and was considered somewhat eccentric anyway, I’m sure.) As I was jogging through one of the old ksars (mud-wall villages), a crowd of kids gathered by the side of the street, pointing and shouting. Through the middle of the cacaphony, I heard one little girl’s voice: “Look, it’s a girl—running!” I don’t think she’d ever seen that happen before; I’d like to think it changed her outlook and opened up her world just a little bit. I also started the first girls’ basketball team in town, which is rather laughable if you are familiar with my (lack of) skills at round ball.
What part of your personality is now extinct?
I don’t know…I guess that naivete that we all experience as children. I may have lost my childish innocence, but I do try to retain a childlike wonder at the world and all the amazing things it has to offer.
What is one thing that you find really funny?
Arrested Development. It gets funnier every time I watch it.
Tell me about a gift you'd like to get yourself, where money is not an issue.
I’d really like to be able to pick out whatever car I wanted. Right now I drive a ‘96 Honda Civic, and while it’s a great car (and will probably outlive me), it doesn’t fit much gear in it for road trips. I go camping a lot, so I really wish I could get a vehicle with more cargo space and that would be tough enough to haul a trailer if I wanted to do that. Cuz yeah, that’s just what I need…a trailer, which would encourage me to accumulate even more gear. ;) Secondarily, I’d love to get one of those huge, marvelous yurt-style tents, so I could make my camp set-up into a plush, getaway oasis. Oh yes, and two strapping lads to set the thing up for me, lol.
What TV show, book or movie is most like your life?
For my childhood, I would’ve said Roseanne. We were that kind of family (at least the way I saw it). Now? I’m not sure. I really don’t think there’s currently a show out there that represents my demographic. That Girl, or Murphy Brown, perhaps? Man, I’m really dating myself with those ones, aren’t I? Ooh, how about Laverne & Shirley? Yeah, that’s probably a little more descriptive of my goofy shenanigans.
What is something that not many people know about you?
I may seem like a very social extrovert, but I’m mostly a big ol’ homebody. I love people, but I also need a lot of quiet time at home.
Thursday, June 20, 2013
Writing's on the wall...
I've been blogging with three fabulous women for over two years and have been enjoying all the fun topics we come up with week after week. If you want to see what we've discussed in the past, check out our posts here.
This week, Froggie wants to know: Are you superstitious? If so, tell us about one of your superstitions. If not talk about why.
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
Whenever I hear the word "superstition," I immediately get the classic Stevie Wonder song in my head. I just needed to put that out there.
I consider myself to be somewhat superstitious. I wouldn't say that I avoid stepping on cracks or black cats in my path (given I had a black cat when I was in high school, I'm not too worried). However, if salt spills, I immediately have to throw some over my shoulder. Not sure why either. I also get nervous about broken mirrors leading to seven years of bad luck and worry about the potential of one breaking in my presence.
When I was pregnant, I'd say "b'shaah tovah" all the time. I still say it for other people who are pregnant, but I said it obsessively for myself whenever I talked about the babies' arrivals. I also believe in the Jewish superstition about not buying anything for babies before they are born. And if I did buy things, I kept the tags on them or pretended they were gifts for other people's babies, just to make myself feel better. Prior to my first child being born, I had bought a take home outfit and told my friend to keep it at her house and not wash it until the baby was born. I found out a few days later that she had washed it while I was still pregnant. I had a little freak-out over that. She helped me feel better about things, but that's how superstitious I get in regards to pregnancy.
In general, I'm obsessive about stuff like making sure all the doors are locked at night and checking them each several times because the first time I checked, there's some chance it would have magically unlocked afterward. (When we had a garage at our house in Illinois, I'd drive around the circle again just to make sure I really closed it.) I also check on my kids when they're sleeping and count their breathing rhythms up to 10 to make sure I'm not imagining them breathing. Maybe that's just a paranoia on my end. I also say "no kaynehores" (kay-na-hor-ahs) a lot as to not jinx myself. When I was a kid, I thought "kaynehore" was a swear word because my late maternal grandma said it so often. I would use it as a swear word when I played Barbies. Later, I found out what it meant: "It shouldn't happen to you." Also, I prepare myself for the worst so that I'll give myself a reverse "kaynehore." I probably drive myself crazy doing so, but I find it helpful.
This week, Froggie wants to know: Are you superstitious? If so, tell us about one of your superstitions. If not talk about why.
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
Whenever I hear the word "superstition," I immediately get the classic Stevie Wonder song in my head. I just needed to put that out there.
I consider myself to be somewhat superstitious. I wouldn't say that I avoid stepping on cracks or black cats in my path (given I had a black cat when I was in high school, I'm not too worried). However, if salt spills, I immediately have to throw some over my shoulder. Not sure why either. I also get nervous about broken mirrors leading to seven years of bad luck and worry about the potential of one breaking in my presence.
When I was pregnant, I'd say "b'shaah tovah" all the time. I still say it for other people who are pregnant, but I said it obsessively for myself whenever I talked about the babies' arrivals. I also believe in the Jewish superstition about not buying anything for babies before they are born. And if I did buy things, I kept the tags on them or pretended they were gifts for other people's babies, just to make myself feel better. Prior to my first child being born, I had bought a take home outfit and told my friend to keep it at her house and not wash it until the baby was born. I found out a few days later that she had washed it while I was still pregnant. I had a little freak-out over that. She helped me feel better about things, but that's how superstitious I get in regards to pregnancy.
In general, I'm obsessive about stuff like making sure all the doors are locked at night and checking them each several times because the first time I checked, there's some chance it would have magically unlocked afterward. (When we had a garage at our house in Illinois, I'd drive around the circle again just to make sure I really closed it.) I also check on my kids when they're sleeping and count their breathing rhythms up to 10 to make sure I'm not imagining them breathing. Maybe that's just a paranoia on my end. I also say "no kaynehores" (kay-na-hor-ahs) a lot as to not jinx myself. When I was a kid, I thought "kaynehore" was a swear word because my late maternal grandma said it so often. I would use it as a swear word when I played Barbies. Later, I found out what it meant: "It shouldn't happen to you." Also, I prepare myself for the worst so that I'll give myself a reverse "kaynehore." I probably drive myself crazy doing so, but I find it helpful.
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
52 Stories: Come together
Inspired by One Hundred Names by Cecelia Ahern, I've decided to ask people some thought provoking questions about themselves, as I feel that everyone has a story to tell. If you're just joining me on this journey today, please check out the previous posts from this series, as well.
I first met this storyteller about three years ago. I think I found her via Facebook when I saw that her blog was giving away books. I even won a book from her shortly after entering her contests. She and I can relate not only to loving books, but also moving from Chicago to other parts of the country. Since then she's published a novella (The Cell Phone Lot) and a full-length novel (What She Left Us) and I've featured her at my book blog a couple of times. This time around, I'm getting to know her in a different way. She gives away books at her blog, Booking with Manic often, so stop on by and enter to win her latest offering!
Name you'd like to go by: Stephanie Elliot
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
Wow. Besides a wet T-shirt contest in Daytona in the late '80s that I wish not to remember... can't really think of anything.
What is your guilty pleasure?
Naps!
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
Traditionally publish my novels
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
The first thing that came to mind is I will pass down my engagement diamond to my daughter some day.
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
Give birth to three children because I gave them their lives!
What part of your personality is now extinct?
The trait of being on time!
What is one thing that you find really funny?
The fact that my oldest son reminds me of my brother and sometimes I say that I gave birth to my brother. He acts just like my brother did when we were children.
Tell me one thing you love about yourself (or a gift you'd like to get yourself, where money is not an issue):
One thing I love about myself is I will always go out of my way in situations where people don't know one another to make the group feel less isolated, I will try to bring the group together, whether it's at a conference or a party or a place where individuals are brought together who don't know each other.
What TV show, book or movie is most like your life?
She's Come Undone by Wally Lamb, not because of the content, but because most days I feel like I have come undone and need help getting myself put back together! Hahah.
What is something that not many people know about you?
If I told you, then you would know!
I first met this storyteller about three years ago. I think I found her via Facebook when I saw that her blog was giving away books. I even won a book from her shortly after entering her contests. She and I can relate not only to loving books, but also moving from Chicago to other parts of the country. Since then she's published a novella (The Cell Phone Lot) and a full-length novel (What She Left Us) and I've featured her at my book blog a couple of times. This time around, I'm getting to know her in a different way. She gives away books at her blog, Booking with Manic often, so stop on by and enter to win her latest offering!
Name you'd like to go by: Stephanie Elliot
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
Wow. Besides a wet T-shirt contest in Daytona in the late '80s that I wish not to remember... can't really think of anything.
What is your guilty pleasure?
Naps!
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
Traditionally publish my novels
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
The first thing that came to mind is I will pass down my engagement diamond to my daughter some day.
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
Give birth to three children because I gave them their lives!
What part of your personality is now extinct?
The trait of being on time!
What is one thing that you find really funny?
The fact that my oldest son reminds me of my brother and sometimes I say that I gave birth to my brother. He acts just like my brother did when we were children.
Tell me one thing you love about yourself (or a gift you'd like to get yourself, where money is not an issue):
One thing I love about myself is I will always go out of my way in situations where people don't know one another to make the group feel less isolated, I will try to bring the group together, whether it's at a conference or a party or a place where individuals are brought together who don't know each other.
What TV show, book or movie is most like your life?
She's Come Undone by Wally Lamb, not because of the content, but because most days I feel like I have come undone and need help getting myself put back together! Hahah.
What is something that not many people know about you?
If I told you, then you would know!
Monday, June 17, 2013
Finders, Keepers
I've been blogging with three fabulous women for over two years and have been enjoying all the fun topics we come up with week after week. If you want to see what we've discussed in the past, check out our posts here.
This week, Mom of Many chose the topic: When you stop looking for something you often find it. Is this something that has been true in your life?.
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
When I first read the topic, I thought Mom of Many was referring to something being in the last place you'd look. That's sometimes the case.
Knowing myself, I'm usually looking for something actively and it's rare when I find something long after I've stopped looking. I could tell myself I wasn't really looking, but I still think I was subtly keeping my eyes and ears open. There have been times when I'd be pleasantly surprised though. And other times when I'd be frustrated by the idea that something would magically turn up if I stopped looking. If that's the case, where is my ring from Israel that disappeared almost four years ago?!?
This concept comes into play around Passover, when I'm cleaning out the cars and unearth all sorts of treasures. I once found my older son's kipah that I'd given up on shortly after our move here. I was excited over that find. Other times, money will turn up out of nowhere, and I have no complaints over that! The best thing is when I go to Value Village and come across something that was just sitting there, waiting for me to find it. The best treasure has been sets of Full House DVDs. I also found My So-Called Life on DVD there one time.
These days, it's less about objects and more about life experiences. I know there are people who say that love comes when you least expect it. I once heard a comedian talk about that phrase. He said that must mean that love would find him at three a.m. while he's on the toilet. Seriously though, I don't know if I was actively looking for love when I found my husband. I'd given up on the search for a soul mate prior to meeting him, but it was such a short time of not actively looking. And I was still openly flirting if I came across a guy I found interesting and approachable. However, this concept does fit in with two other life experiences....
When we lived in New Jersey, we were looking for a community that was a better fit for us both financially and socially. We spent Shabbos weekends in different neighborhoods, but never had that "Goldilocks" moment during any of these visits. After a while, we stopped seeking out towns to visit, at least for the winter months, and decided to take things as they came. Then we went to Washington DC for my husband's work conference and that led us to check out a nearby neighborhood a few months later. We experienced the "Goldilocks" moment right away. Four years later, we still love living here.
The other life experience this relates to is making new friends. I have actively sought out ways to make friends in the past. Sometimes I'd just make one new friend and that would be it. I was always just looking to meet people nearby and form a connection so we could hang out more often. This ended up happening with someone whom I am now friends with in my community. We might not have talked more than a "hi" in passing if we didn't run into each other at an author event. When I had initially met her about two years prior to that event, I tried reaching out to become friends but nothing ever came of it. It took this author event to bring us together and I'm very thankful for that. (And here I thought having the author call me by name was the best moment of the evening!) Then there are the people who live far away but have become close friends because we met through the book blog. They e-mailed me about appearing on the blog and all of a sudden we're talking about anything and everything. These women know who they are...or at least I hope they do! They've become very special to me over a short period of time. I've also connected really well with other book bloggers, but have yet to meet them in person.
I hope this answers Mom of Many's question.
This week, Mom of Many chose the topic: When you stop looking for something you often find it. Is this something that has been true in your life?.
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
When I first read the topic, I thought Mom of Many was referring to something being in the last place you'd look. That's sometimes the case.
Knowing myself, I'm usually looking for something actively and it's rare when I find something long after I've stopped looking. I could tell myself I wasn't really looking, but I still think I was subtly keeping my eyes and ears open. There have been times when I'd be pleasantly surprised though. And other times when I'd be frustrated by the idea that something would magically turn up if I stopped looking. If that's the case, where is my ring from Israel that disappeared almost four years ago?!?
This concept comes into play around Passover, when I'm cleaning out the cars and unearth all sorts of treasures. I once found my older son's kipah that I'd given up on shortly after our move here. I was excited over that find. Other times, money will turn up out of nowhere, and I have no complaints over that! The best thing is when I go to Value Village and come across something that was just sitting there, waiting for me to find it. The best treasure has been sets of Full House DVDs. I also found My So-Called Life on DVD there one time.
These days, it's less about objects and more about life experiences. I know there are people who say that love comes when you least expect it. I once heard a comedian talk about that phrase. He said that must mean that love would find him at three a.m. while he's on the toilet. Seriously though, I don't know if I was actively looking for love when I found my husband. I'd given up on the search for a soul mate prior to meeting him, but it was such a short time of not actively looking. And I was still openly flirting if I came across a guy I found interesting and approachable. However, this concept does fit in with two other life experiences....
When we lived in New Jersey, we were looking for a community that was a better fit for us both financially and socially. We spent Shabbos weekends in different neighborhoods, but never had that "Goldilocks" moment during any of these visits. After a while, we stopped seeking out towns to visit, at least for the winter months, and decided to take things as they came. Then we went to Washington DC for my husband's work conference and that led us to check out a nearby neighborhood a few months later. We experienced the "Goldilocks" moment right away. Four years later, we still love living here.
The other life experience this relates to is making new friends. I have actively sought out ways to make friends in the past. Sometimes I'd just make one new friend and that would be it. I was always just looking to meet people nearby and form a connection so we could hang out more often. This ended up happening with someone whom I am now friends with in my community. We might not have talked more than a "hi" in passing if we didn't run into each other at an author event. When I had initially met her about two years prior to that event, I tried reaching out to become friends but nothing ever came of it. It took this author event to bring us together and I'm very thankful for that. (And here I thought having the author call me by name was the best moment of the evening!) Then there are the people who live far away but have become close friends because we met through the book blog. They e-mailed me about appearing on the blog and all of a sudden we're talking about anything and everything. These women know who they are...or at least I hope they do! They've become very special to me over a short period of time. I've also connected really well with other book bloggers, but have yet to meet them in person.
I hope this answers Mom of Many's question.
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
52 Stories: Mrs. Mommy Booknerd
Inspired by One Hundred Names by Cecelia Ahern, I've decided to ask people some thought provoking questions about themselves, as I feel that everyone has a story to tell. If you're just joining me on this journey today, please check out the previous posts from this series, as well.
The blogosphere has connected me with many book bloggers with similar reading interests. Today's storyteller is one of those bloggers. Since she is not keeping this anonymous, I wanted to plug her blog here too. You can access it through the link below.
Name: Emily Lewis AKA Mrs Mommy Booknerd
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
I think that the most legendary thing I ever did personally was having two amazing children. Being a mother is the most amazing, difficult, wonderful, scary, life changing experience. Each and every day I learn that I know nothing and everything. Being the center of two children's lives is such an amazing gift.
The other most legendary thing I ever did was to complete two half marathons. I have a new goal to finish the Tough Mudder in September. I hope I live to tell the tale!
What is your guilty pleasure?
I love to read, which I am sure everybody knows. But I also love a really good TV show. I can get lost in either of them for hours after the kids are off to bed. I was totally hooked on The Following this season and I cannot wait til next season. So that was probably the biggest guilty pleasure I had lately.
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
I would love to jump out of a plane. I am, not sure that I would ever be able to face my fear and do it though, but one never knows, right???
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
Wow, that is a tough one. I think that I would give my sister my signed copy of Whistling in the Dark by Lesley Kagen. The writing is so brilliant and the story is about two sisters. I think that it would really get my sister into reading. She is so busy working, being a mother and life in general. I would love to slow her down and take her on an adventure with those amazing girls!
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
Well this is easy. I was the stem cell donor for my brother when he was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma for the third time. I was a perfect match and was able to save his life. I am not sure anything can top that. I am sure that could fall under the legendary questions too. I hope in my lifetime to donate again! It was truly a life changing experience!!!!
What part of your personality is now extinct?
Love this! The daredevil is long gone. I used to be so wild and now with kids life has slowed to a safe speed and I am okay with that!!!
What is one thing that you find really funny?
This is going to seem strange, but mustaches! Sometimes I see one and I can smile all day! Not sure why that is but it really cracks me up!!!
Tell me one thing you love about yourself?
When I do something I love I give 150%! I want to be the best at whatever it is that I do. But I am not overly competitive or cocky...just a honest, hardworking person!
What is something that not many people know about you?
When I was a kid I sucked my pointer and middle fingers on my right hand, they are still bigger than my other fingers!
The blogosphere has connected me with many book bloggers with similar reading interests. Today's storyteller is one of those bloggers. Since she is not keeping this anonymous, I wanted to plug her blog here too. You can access it through the link below.
Name: Emily Lewis AKA Mrs Mommy Booknerd
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
I think that the most legendary thing I ever did personally was having two amazing children. Being a mother is the most amazing, difficult, wonderful, scary, life changing experience. Each and every day I learn that I know nothing and everything. Being the center of two children's lives is such an amazing gift.
The other most legendary thing I ever did was to complete two half marathons. I have a new goal to finish the Tough Mudder in September. I hope I live to tell the tale!
What is your guilty pleasure?
I love to read, which I am sure everybody knows. But I also love a really good TV show. I can get lost in either of them for hours after the kids are off to bed. I was totally hooked on The Following this season and I cannot wait til next season. So that was probably the biggest guilty pleasure I had lately.
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
I would love to jump out of a plane. I am, not sure that I would ever be able to face my fear and do it though, but one never knows, right???
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
Wow, that is a tough one. I think that I would give my sister my signed copy of Whistling in the Dark by Lesley Kagen. The writing is so brilliant and the story is about two sisters. I think that it would really get my sister into reading. She is so busy working, being a mother and life in general. I would love to slow her down and take her on an adventure with those amazing girls!
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
Well this is easy. I was the stem cell donor for my brother when he was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma for the third time. I was a perfect match and was able to save his life. I am not sure anything can top that. I am sure that could fall under the legendary questions too. I hope in my lifetime to donate again! It was truly a life changing experience!!!!
What part of your personality is now extinct?
Love this! The daredevil is long gone. I used to be so wild and now with kids life has slowed to a safe speed and I am okay with that!!!
What is one thing that you find really funny?
This is going to seem strange, but mustaches! Sometimes I see one and I can smile all day! Not sure why that is but it really cracks me up!!!
Tell me one thing you love about yourself?
When I do something I love I give 150%! I want to be the best at whatever it is that I do. But I am not overly competitive or cocky...just a honest, hardworking person!
What is something that not many people know about you?
When I was a kid I sucked my pointer and middle fingers on my right hand, they are still bigger than my other fingers!
Sunday, June 9, 2013
Book Review: And the Mountains Echoed
A few years ago, I finally decided to pick up The Kite Runner after a lot of hesitancy to do so prior. As soon as I did, I couldn't put it down. Immediately upon finishing it, I rushed out to get A Thousand Splendid Suns, which I liked even more. So you can see why I was eagerly anticipating the arrival of And the Mountains Echoed, Khaled Hosseini's third novel. It was definitely worth the wait!
Abdullah and Pari are brother and sister, but Pari looks up to Abdullah as a father figure and Abdullah's whole world revolves around Pari. Then something happens to shake up their world and outwardly changes the lives of others in their path, causing a ripple effect. From Kabul to Paris to San Francisco to an island in Greece called Tinos, Khaled Hosseini introduces us to ordinary (and sometimes extraordinary) men and women and talks about the sacrifices made for family and loved ones and how their lives can intersect in the most seamless of ways.
I could just tell you that I loved this novel and stop right there. That's all you really need to know, right? But if you must know more, I can gladly say how moving this story was from beginning to end and how I still can't stop thinking about all the characters and what happened in their lives. Khaled Hosseini paints such a vivid picture for his readers, really bringing us into the characters' daily lives and sharing the good, the bad and the ugly. It's just so well written, honest, provoking and heartbreaking.
There were a few stories that really stood out for me above the others. I was moved by Idris' story and could relate to him in some ways. The outcome of the story hit me harder than some of the others. I wanted to be angry with him for letting that happen but I also sympathized with and felt bad for him. Then Markos' story was also really interesting, in regards to the connection he makes with Thalia and where his life takes him as a result. The final story is also really good, but I don't want to say why as to not give spoilers. The irony in that story was the most heart wrenching of all. Some other stories fell by the wayside a bit, in that they didn't really have as much of an affect on the rest of what was happening in the novel. They were good in their own way, but weakened by looking at the bigger picture. This is the case for Adel's story and Parwana's story. In the meantime, there were some stories that were slipped in, but didn't have a chance to be narrated into something bigger. I would have liked to learn more about Timur, Roshi and Saboor, from their perspectives. I got some background on Nila, but it was more through the eyes of others directly connected to her.
The only concern I had was with Nabi's story, as it was written as a letter yet told as a narrative. If he was writing it when he was in his 80s, how would he remember dialogue that took place in his 20s or 30s? I never like when a letter or a diary references actual dialogue and this happened a lot for Nabi's story. I know why it had to be in letter format, but it didn't contain the feel of an actual letter.
I can't say enough how I loved this novel and think everyone should read it. There's at least one story (if not more) in there that will affect every person for their own personal reasons. Khaled Hosseini is a natural storyteller and I hope he doesn't wait as long to produce his next novel, as I'm already eagerly awaiting its arrival!
I received this book as a gift and it was very much appreciated!
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Thursday, June 6, 2013
Would you like matzo balls with that?
I've been blogging with three fabulous women for over two years and have been enjoying all the fun topics we come up with week after week. If you want to see what we've discussed in the past, check out our posts here.
This week, I chose the topic: Share a Chicken Soup for the Soul story that either happened to you personally or you witnessed.
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
I used to read the Chicken Soup for the Soul books a lot, especially during my college years. I found them inspiring, heartwarming and emotional. I just know that in my own life, there have been moments that evoked those same feelings. I still remember crying at the surprise proposal for one of the girls in my improv class at the final class show. It was one of those sweet and amazing moments that caught me off guard, like a real life Hallmark commercial. I don't really have long stories, but I wanted to share a few other moments that I hope will warm your heart, as well.
*Another time I was recently brought to tears was at my younger son's Purim concert this past February. One of the girls from a different class had stage fright, so her dad got up on stage with her so that she'd feel less afraid. Instead of just standing there and holding her hand, he totally got into all the dancing, not caring how silly it might have seemed. I was sitting in the audience wiping away tears because of how sweet it was.
*Recently, when I was tucking my younger son in bed for the night, I asked him something about my older son. I can't remember what it was that I even said, but he responded with "He's my best friend!" Such a beautiful and innocent remark.
*Back when I worked at a camp for kids with special needs, I was in charge of helping a girl who had severe developmental disabilities. I had to make sure that she was included in all the activities with the other campers, for socialization purposes. One time, when I was involving her in a group activity, one of the other campers (who was usually not that well behaved) came up and gave her a hug. It definitely made me verklempt to see him do that.
*Witnessing the marriage of people whose weddings I had a part in making possible.
*The messages I receive from authors thanking me for what I do via my book blog are heartwarming and some e-mails have made me teary-eyed. It's nice to feel like I've made a difference in someone's life, even on a small scale.
*Reuniting with friends I haven't heard from in a long time. Facebook has made so much of that possible. I'm still moved by the fact that one of these friends drove SIX hours round trip just to hang out with me for 1/3 of that much time. And this was the first time we had seen each other in 13 years. I remember when we first found each other via Facebook, I couldn't stop grinning! And when we met up in person, it was like no time had been lost.
I'd love to hear your Chicken Soup for the Soul moments or stories!
This week, I chose the topic: Share a Chicken Soup for the Soul story that either happened to you personally or you witnessed.
Before reading ahead, first see what everyone else had to say on this topic:
Froggie
Mom of Many
Moma Rock
I used to read the Chicken Soup for the Soul books a lot, especially during my college years. I found them inspiring, heartwarming and emotional. I just know that in my own life, there have been moments that evoked those same feelings. I still remember crying at the surprise proposal for one of the girls in my improv class at the final class show. It was one of those sweet and amazing moments that caught me off guard, like a real life Hallmark commercial. I don't really have long stories, but I wanted to share a few other moments that I hope will warm your heart, as well.
*Another time I was recently brought to tears was at my younger son's Purim concert this past February. One of the girls from a different class had stage fright, so her dad got up on stage with her so that she'd feel less afraid. Instead of just standing there and holding her hand, he totally got into all the dancing, not caring how silly it might have seemed. I was sitting in the audience wiping away tears because of how sweet it was.
*Recently, when I was tucking my younger son in bed for the night, I asked him something about my older son. I can't remember what it was that I even said, but he responded with "He's my best friend!" Such a beautiful and innocent remark.
*Back when I worked at a camp for kids with special needs, I was in charge of helping a girl who had severe developmental disabilities. I had to make sure that she was included in all the activities with the other campers, for socialization purposes. One time, when I was involving her in a group activity, one of the other campers (who was usually not that well behaved) came up and gave her a hug. It definitely made me verklempt to see him do that.
*Witnessing the marriage of people whose weddings I had a part in making possible.
*The messages I receive from authors thanking me for what I do via my book blog are heartwarming and some e-mails have made me teary-eyed. It's nice to feel like I've made a difference in someone's life, even on a small scale.
*Reuniting with friends I haven't heard from in a long time. Facebook has made so much of that possible. I'm still moved by the fact that one of these friends drove SIX hours round trip just to hang out with me for 1/3 of that much time. And this was the first time we had seen each other in 13 years. I remember when we first found each other via Facebook, I couldn't stop grinning! And when we met up in person, it was like no time had been lost.
I'd love to hear your Chicken Soup for the Soul moments or stories!
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
52 Stories: Just a Broadway Baby
Inspired by One Hundred Names by Cecelia Ahern, I've decided to ask people some thought provoking questions about themselves, as I feel that everyone has a story to tell. If you're just joining me on this journey today, please check out the previous posts from this series, as well.
I met this storyteller through my book blog, as she is an author and her novels fit into the chick lit category. From what I remember, she's friends with another author I was working with and I saw a picture of her book cover on that author's page and decided to click over and check her out. I'm glad I did, as her novels are fun and quirky and she's incredibly nice! She even interviewed me for her blog recently! She's the author of Rita Hayworth's Shoes and The Girl, The Gold Tooth and Everything. Meet Francine LaSala!
Name you'd like to go by: Francine LaSala (an author but also an “open book”)
Age: 42
Gender: Female
Location: New York
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
I got married at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City on Valentine’s Day. That year, every day for six weeks leading up to the wedding, it was 10 degrees or colder. Then a few days before, it shot to 30, then 40. It was 55 degrees in February on our wedding day! I have pictures of me in a strapless gown OUTSIDE. People thought we were celebrities when we emerged from the church after the ceremony. It was just a magical, legendary experience!
What is your guilty pleasure?
Cadbury Dairy Milk Chocolate with red wine. Yum!
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
I would love to perform in a Broadway show. Not a play, but a musical. I don’t need to be the lead, but I think it would be amazing to just be up there. I have two left feet, and when I sing, the angels weep (in pain), but there’s just something about the electricity of the stage that sucks me in and keeps me dreaming.
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
I have a weird relationship with material things because I never seem to have them. Immaterially, I think there’s a sense of calm and gratitude I have that it took me to 40 to get for myself. I used to let everything get to me. I used to feel responsible for everything, especially horrible things that were never in my control anyway. My ability to take a deep breath and shrug my shoulders, to not let things I can’t change, “eat” me alive, is one of my favorite “things” I have. It gives me the ability to see the positives in every day. That gets tough when nothing seems to be going right, but even if it’s as small as “My kid went to the bathroom without me nagging her” or “I had enough milk without having to run out,” it’s worth celebrating. That’s where my Joy Jar project comes from. A lot of people think they have to wait until they get a fancy new job or buy a new car or something amazing happens to them before they can post something, but my favorite posts are always the ones that celebrate joy in the smallest things. In any case, I like to gift that “thing” to others--hence the Joy Jar! :-)
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
I have a sort of distant friend who once told me that on a business drinks outing with him, in what may as well be another lifetime, I convinced him to ask his then-girlfriend to marry him. I believe they’ve been married now nearly 20 years. I only found out about this recently, via Facebook of course.
What part of your personality is now extinct?
The girl who craves unrequited love. That was a hard one to squash. At least it came in handy for writing, though!
What is one thing that you find really funny?
I’m kind of a slapstick gal. It would be terrible to admit what I really find funny... But as long as nobody gets hurt, it’s okay that it could be funny. Right??
Tell me one thing you love about yourself (or a gift you'd like to get yourself, where money is not an issue):
I love my generous spirt. It’s unfortunate that sometimes it works against me, but I don’t think I’d trade it in. (It may be my only ticket to Heaven. LOL!)
What TV show, book or movie is most like your life?
I wish I could say 30 Rock, but it would have to be Up All Night. Though I’m pissed Christina Applegate isn’t returning in the fall. How the hell are they going to pull that off without her?
(Side note: The show has been cancelled.)
What is something that not many people know about you?
I scored very poorly on my SATs. I mean, very poorly. Scary bad. Only on the math. I did great on the verbal. Surprised?
I met this storyteller through my book blog, as she is an author and her novels fit into the chick lit category. From what I remember, she's friends with another author I was working with and I saw a picture of her book cover on that author's page and decided to click over and check her out. I'm glad I did, as her novels are fun and quirky and she's incredibly nice! She even interviewed me for her blog recently! She's the author of Rita Hayworth's Shoes and The Girl, The Gold Tooth and Everything. Meet Francine LaSala!
Name you'd like to go by: Francine LaSala (an author but also an “open book”)
Age: 42
Gender: Female
Location: New York
What is an experience that is legendary for you?
I got married at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City on Valentine’s Day. That year, every day for six weeks leading up to the wedding, it was 10 degrees or colder. Then a few days before, it shot to 30, then 40. It was 55 degrees in February on our wedding day! I have pictures of me in a strapless gown OUTSIDE. People thought we were celebrities when we emerged from the church after the ceremony. It was just a magical, legendary experience!
What is your guilty pleasure?
Cadbury Dairy Milk Chocolate with red wine. Yum!
What is something you've never done but you would like to do?
I would love to perform in a Broadway show. Not a play, but a musical. I don’t need to be the lead, but I think it would be amazing to just be up there. I have two left feet, and when I sing, the angels weep (in pain), but there’s just something about the electricity of the stage that sucks me in and keeps me dreaming.
If you could give someone one of your favorite things as a gift, what would it be and why?
I have a weird relationship with material things because I never seem to have them. Immaterially, I think there’s a sense of calm and gratitude I have that it took me to 40 to get for myself. I used to let everything get to me. I used to feel responsible for everything, especially horrible things that were never in my control anyway. My ability to take a deep breath and shrug my shoulders, to not let things I can’t change, “eat” me alive, is one of my favorite “things” I have. It gives me the ability to see the positives in every day. That gets tough when nothing seems to be going right, but even if it’s as small as “My kid went to the bathroom without me nagging her” or “I had enough milk without having to run out,” it’s worth celebrating. That’s where my Joy Jar project comes from. A lot of people think they have to wait until they get a fancy new job or buy a new car or something amazing happens to them before they can post something, but my favorite posts are always the ones that celebrate joy in the smallest things. In any case, I like to gift that “thing” to others--hence the Joy Jar! :-)
What is something you did that changed someone's life?
I have a sort of distant friend who once told me that on a business drinks outing with him, in what may as well be another lifetime, I convinced him to ask his then-girlfriend to marry him. I believe they’ve been married now nearly 20 years. I only found out about this recently, via Facebook of course.
What part of your personality is now extinct?
The girl who craves unrequited love. That was a hard one to squash. At least it came in handy for writing, though!
What is one thing that you find really funny?
I’m kind of a slapstick gal. It would be terrible to admit what I really find funny... But as long as nobody gets hurt, it’s okay that it could be funny. Right??
Tell me one thing you love about yourself (or a gift you'd like to get yourself, where money is not an issue):
I love my generous spirt. It’s unfortunate that sometimes it works against me, but I don’t think I’d trade it in. (It may be my only ticket to Heaven. LOL!)
What TV show, book or movie is most like your life?
I wish I could say 30 Rock, but it would have to be Up All Night. Though I’m pissed Christina Applegate isn’t returning in the fall. How the hell are they going to pull that off without her?
(Side note: The show has been cancelled.)
What is something that not many people know about you?
I scored very poorly on my SATs. I mean, very poorly. Scary bad. Only on the math. I did great on the verbal. Surprised?
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