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Thursday, May 29, 2025
Why I love Ghosts the most!
As you may well know by now, I can't stop talking (and thinking) about Ghosts! I had heard about it a while back, but I didn't think it would be something of interest to watch and I think I was immersed in Schitt's Creek or Ted Lasso, along with a few other favorite shows at the time. Sometime last year, a close friend was recommending it, but I was still hesitant to watch. Then I read Haunted Ever After by Jen DeLuca and enjoyed it so much that I decided to give Ghosts a try. And I'm SO glad I did!!!
I binged through the first three seasons, as well as the first half of season four to get caught up to the new episodes that were starting up in late January. Then I told my husband that he had to watch and I binged them again with him. He's now finally caught up and we watched the season four finale together. He loves it as much as I do, but probably not to the same level of obsession that I'm at. It's such a comfort show for me these days and even when it's not on or I'm not rewatching it, I'm still constantly thinking of it, especially while being immersed in all things about Ghosts on social media.
I've only seen the US version. People have told me they love the UK version, but I haven't brought myself to watch it yet. I'm just too invested in the US version.
For those of you who love Ghosts as much as I do, there will be thoughts with spoilers below the trailer.
For those of you who don't know what Ghosts is about:
Samantha inherits a mansion from a relative who recently died but had no other kin to pass it along to. She and her husband Jay go to check out the mansion, with the possibility of turning it into a bed and breakfast. However, there are ghosts living in the house and they don't like the idea of it becoming overcrowded by lots of guests. So they try to sabotage Sam and Jay's plans by showing how haunted the house really is. Except Sam gets injured as a result and when she returns from the hospital, she can see the ghosts. What comes out of that is Sam becoming a medium for the ghosts and trying to fulfill their requests and demands. They are always finding ways to cause chaos in her life, and it affects Jay too, even though he can't see them. I will leave it at that because I want you to watch it unfold the way I did, and you will definitely be surprised by how wonderful it all is.
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I didn't really know most of the actors going into this series. I had seen a couple on other shows, but I mainly knew Utkarsh Ambudkar, who plays Jay, as he's in everything. I also learned that he and Richie Moriarty, who plays Pete (the one dressed like a boy scout with an arrow through his neck) went to the same high school in Montgomery County, Maryland. Anyway, I love all these actors now and would be completely starstruck if I met them in person.
Some reasons to watch Ghosts:
1. It's hilarious! I've laughed out loud many, many times in each episode and it's still just as funny on the rewatch. There were times I was laughing so hard I couldn't see straight! There are a lot of inside jokes. You have to watch from the beginning of the series because they refer back to earlier episodes and situations.
2. There is some history to be learned, but in a fun way. One of the ghosts is from the Revolutionary War era and he hates Hamilton (and I don't blame him after we learn why). There are a lot of Hamilton references, as a result.
3. The ghosts are from a variety of eras ranging from thousands of years ago to the beginning of the 21st century. So there are somewhat modern pop culture references which have to be explained to the older ghosts.
4. Sam and Jay's relationship. They're so sweet together. Jay puts up with so many ghost shenanigans because Sam just can't say no to them.
5. Possessions... that's all I will say because you just have to see what happens!
6. The recurring side characters, both living and ghosts, who add to the conflicts, as well as the fun!
7. The diversity. There is LGBTQ, Jewish, African American, Native American, and Indian representation on the show. I'm sure other countries who do the show have different diversity groups represented, as well.
8. The innuendoes. There's one for when ghosts are sent up to Heaven and another for when they are sent down to Hell (this has only happened to one ghost who earned that placement). There are also funny terms for other situations, as well. I don't want to spoil anything though!
9. The show just has a lot of heart and it's become a comfort series for me. I care not only about the ghosts, but also Sam and Jay. I love how everyone looks after each other.
10. The costumes that the actors playing the ghosts get to wear. I especially love Hetty's gorgeous dress. Alberta's outfit is stunning too (even though Thor makes fun of her hat).
If this hasn't convinced you to watch, check out a trailer from the first season.
Trailer:
Thoughts with SPOILERS:
First I want to talk about the characters. Then I will share some of my favorite episodes, along with some random thoughts.
When I first started the series, I had some favorite characters in mind. However, I love all the main characters so much that it's really hard to choose between them. This includes Sam and Jay.
If I were to say there was an Alpha ghost, that position would go to Pete. I feel he has what it takes, including the advantage of one of the best ghost powers. He's also funny, optimistic, kind, supportive of the other ghosts (including finding Sass a girlfriend), intelligent, and likes geeky stuff (which aligns him well with Jay). His storylines have gotten me emotional the most, as well. And he has the most integrity. Plus, it's fun seeing his "bad" side (or at least Alberta appreciates it). Pete is the one I'd want to go on vacation with, since he was a travel agent and all.
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Flower reminds me of a cross between Phoebe from Friends and Alexis from Schitt's Creek, but also with her own flair. The fact that she died while stoned and is perpetually in this daze adds a lot to the humor of the show. She's also just adorable! I love how she will throw a curveball when you least expect it, like when she figured out what Trevor and Hetty were up to with tricking her into buying candles and she bought the Cutting Edge ice skates to use as a bargaining chip. I love seeing Flower and Thor as a couple and how she keeps Thor's anger in check while still allowing him to be himself. I was sad when I thought she got sucked off and felt like something was missing from the show during the episodes she wasn't on. Oh, and did she ever tell you about the time she robbed a bank? Flower is the one I'd want possessing me, as I think she would help me chill out a bit.
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When I first saw the attractive young guy dressed up like he was going into the office, sans pants, I had no idea he was also going to be Jewish. Bonus points there! Especially when he fits Yiddish words and Jewish references in whenever possible. Of course, Trevor is totally crushworthy! Who can blame Bela for falling for a dead guy who is reaching out to her on a dating app? Especially when he shares a picture with his dog. *Melt* And I definitely envy Hetty, but that's all I will say on that... Yeah, he acts like a womanizer and refers to himself as T-Money and manages to cause trouble every so often, like giving Sam and Jay's money to an online scammer. However, he has these vulnerable moments that you don't see coming and those are just the best! I still get teary-eyed thinking about his relationship with his dog. Trevor died too young to get the future he wanted and I feel sympathetic to him for that, as well. At least he made his legacy at work with his hero move! (Which explains the missing pants.) I also love that he's a father for real, even though he missed out on all that time in his daughter's life. He has a really cool ghost power: the ability to touch objects and press buttons. He can also touch living people, as we've learned from the episode with his brother. It's just amusing how it takes him so long to initially press a button but then somehow he can do the others really fast.
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Hetty definitely has a dominating personality in the mansion, considering it belongs to her family. Unfortunately, she has a philandering robber baron for a husband and even though he went down on her, he still finds ways to cause trouble. What I really love for Hetty is seeing her learn the ways of the modern world and adapt to them. She's more feminist than before and appreciates a good ride on a washing machine, now that she knows what it can do for her. Her main weakness is cocaine, if she could obtain any. She does have her dark secrets that have come out during the show: being connected to Alberta's death and causing her own death. Hetty is a mother and now that she doesn't have that connection to her son anymore, she keeps the other ghosts, along with Sam, in check. She's also manipulative when it suits her best interest. Hetty is definitely a force to be reckoned with and I just wish her ghost power came into play more than once a year. I also love when she possessed Jay. Too funny! She's the one I think I identify with the most.
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Now we have our pizza loving, storytelling friend, Sasappis. Honestly, I felt like he was more in the background initially. He just seemed quieter in comparison to the other ghosts and his main focus was food. It took more time to really get to know Sass, but once his ghost power was revealed, he stood out a lot more. He's grown on me a lot more than I thought he would and I feel like the show would be missing something without him there. I've noticed that Sass loves love. It shows in the way he crushed on Shiki for so long and fell headfirst for Jessica (the car ghost) in a short period of time. He also tried to manifest a connection with a living girl through Jay's dreams (and ended up manifesting them with Jay's interests). I really like him with Joan though. They're both storytellers in their own ways. Sass comes off as naive, but also really wise. And I love his friendship with Thor, considering Thor was his first friend in the afterlife. He's also a really good singer, which I was pleasantly surprised about.
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Speaking of Thor, short for Thorfinn...he's the gentle giant of the group. Just don't mention the Danes if you don't want him getting mad enough to short out all the electricity. (Or cut off your hand, if you're a ghost too.) Thor is definitely one of the funniest (and everyone is funny, so that's a step above) on the show. I love his therapy sessions with Sam speaking for him. And just how he talks in third person with broken English. (He is a Viking from the 1000s, after all.) Thor has softened his stance a lot, especially when it comes to Flower, but it hasn't taken away from how funny he is. I think he's definitely my husband's favorite (and my husband does a great impression of him too). He's just generally lovable but that doesn't dismiss all he's been through in the past, with being abandoned, killed by a lightning strike, and still stuck in purgatory over a thousand years. (Not that I want him getting sucked off though.)
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Saving Pony and Bangs for last (at least from the set of ghosts)!
Isaac (Pony) Higgintoot is a gem. He's the first ghost who really caught my interest when I started the series. Maybe it was due to his gay commentary on everything. I'm an LGBTQ+ ally and knowing that one of the ghosts was gay definitely won me over. I know it took him a bit to come out, and I was proud of him for being able to do so. (Even though the other ghosts pretty much suspected it anyway.) I especially love his friendship with Alberta (Bangs) and Hetty. I also love that he's an investor in Jay's restaurant, even though he was only just a tad difficult about everything when it came to decisions about how the restaurant should look. He also has the worst ghost power ever, but it does come in handy sometimes. His animosity toward Hamilton (the person and the musical) makes his story that much more entertaining. I especially loved the Ruffle Kerfuffle episode. Poor Isaac! He was in the room where it happened and he got kicked out. I didn't like his relationship with Nigel and maybe I'm in the minority here, but it was just full of strife for me. I know things didn't work out with Chris, but I hope that there could be potential for another gay ghost in the future. And maybe Isaac won't be so awkward this time. Finally, I love when he gasps over revelations. Especially his own! Isaac is the one I'd want to be roommates with, provided no one walks through him.
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It took a while for me to get to know and appreciate Alberta, but she's so darn lovable! Her ghost power is pretty cool in that she can get livings to actually hear her. She was even able to talk to an Alexa (and she learned how Sam felt in the process). Her voice is heavenly (excuse the pun) and I love how she used it to send a sign to her great great niece. I actually cried when she did that. Even though Creepy Todd isn't the person she wants sharing her story with everyone, I have to agree with him that she's legendary and worth telling everyone about. I enjoy that she has learned Yiddish from Trevor and can explain to others what he is talking about. And I love that she's into Pete now and that they finally got together. I was so excited about this in the season finale that I was laughing and crying at the same time! It's sad that she was murdered by Hetty's son, but I'm glad she has closure about what happened and has been able to move on from it. Even though Thor doesn't like her hat, I think she looks fabulous and I love her entire outfit! I could see her playing Medda in Newsies (the musical). Alberta is the one I'd want haunting my house. I love hearing her sing!
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Now we've come to the livings.
I can't decide if I'm jealous of Sam or not. Like I think it would be fun and cool to have this connection with the ghosts at Woodstone. Maybe because I just love them so much. She also has an advantage because they can spy on people and tell her things. However, her ability to see and communicate with ghosts is also a curse. Like how she can't go to Starbucks because it was once an insane asylum or something like that. The ghosts also make demands like children, so it's like she became a mother to eight adults overnight and they don't know when to leave her alone. Like couldn't Isaac ask Thor to turn on the dinosaur light?
I truly appreciate all Sam does for the ghosts but she needs to question their motives and think first before always jumping in to help them or believing everything they say to be the ultimate truth. She got burned by Stephanie when Tad arrived, because she blindly accepted what she said at face value instead of looking into things. She also believed Sass about the tree and tried educating someone who is actually Lenape about it. Not a good look, Sam! And since Jay is blindly going along with everything the ghosts want, she should cut him some slack. Sam also lies to Jay and the ghosts. She only really has a reason to lie to livings who don't know she can see ghosts or they'll think she's kooka-luka. (She comes off that way anyway when she stares off while the ghosts are talking to her or starts talking to them out loud when other people are around.) When she lies to Jay and the ghosts, she gets caught all the time and ends up looking stupid. I hated when she lied to Isaac about the book. I know it ended up working out in her favor in the end, but Isaac got hurt by the lie and it was actually insulting to his intelligence. And it also backfired when Trevor posted on social media. The other bad one was making Jay eat a sour ram testicle for Thor by lying to get out of doing it herself.
Sam has a good kinship with the ghosts and is sensitive to them, which I appreciate. I love how kindly she handled things when she found out about Hetty's suicide. I also love how she helped Trevor connect with his daughter.
Jay's biggest vulnerability is Sam. He is such a loving husband to her and I'm glad she realizes how truly lucky she is. I think Kyle helped in that respect by talking about how it's hard to be in a relationship when you can see and talk to ghosts. I give Jay so much credit for not being able to see the ghosts (aside from Sass in his dreams) and thus being left out of conversations. It can't be easy to be in that situation and to have to trust Sam as the medium. I got annoyed when Sam told him to pay attention to Isaac's ruffle story when he couldn't see or hear him. He does a LOT for the ghosts and puts up with so many of their needs and demands, even to his own detriment. For example, I did not like how Flower tried to sabotage opening night at his restaurant over a fake meteor prediction. That was so unfair to him. I also hate that Elias pretended to be a publicist in order to take his soul. I really hope he will be okay and that this situation will be resolved. Even though Sam is the one who communicates with the ghosts, Jay is so important to the show in so many ways. I just think he should know by now that the ghosts can be anywhere in (or outside of) the mansion and he needs to be careful with what he says out loud.
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There are quite a few regular side characters I'd like to share my thoughts on. This won't be as long as my thoughts for the main characters, but I do have stuff to say!
Nancy: She was a fun surprise. We didn't see her amongst the basement ghosts until Pete needed a fake girlfriend. And then, voila! I thought she was going to be annoying at first, and she basically was, but I appreciated how she got Pete to stand up for himself and also how she "broke up" with him to help him save face. Since then, it's just been so much fun to have her around. Betsy Sodaro plays this role to perfection with her voice and mannerisms. She's just hilarious! I especially love how she gets mad at Stuart all the time. Best line: "Nice ankle, ya whore!" (Said to Hetty about a portrait where it showed her ankle.)
Nigel: Contrary to how much everyone else loves Nigel and ships him with Isaac (even now that they're not together), he's not a favorite for me. I felt like he manipulated Isaac and I just wasn't fond of their relationship. It clearly spoke volumes when Isaac started thinking about Chris a lot. Anyway, what really turned me off about Nigel was that he was blackmailing Hetty and Trevor after he caught them canoodling. I just wanted him out of the mansion at that point. I was relieved when Isaac decided not to go through with marrying him. Also, I was really angry when he basically "stole" Chris right from under Isaac's nose and then Isaac had the grace to not make him feel bad about himself when Chris left. Best line: "We were on a respite!"
Carol: When Flower predicted Carol would die in Woodstone, we didn't expect it to actually happen. She makes quite an interesting ghost though and I wish she were around more often. I'm glad Pete is over her, especially after finding out that she cheated on him. I also appreciate that she helped Jay get out of the situation with the mafia. Carol may be a piece of work, but she's just so entertaining. Caroline Aaron plays the part so well too.
Elias: He is just awful. I don't even know what else to say about him, honestly. I'm glad he went down though. That's where he belongs. And I'm glad he's doomed to listen to "Tubthumping" all the time. If you read Haunted Ever After, Elias reminds me of the villain ghost. I could see him playing Pulitzer in Newsies (the musical).
Patience: She's a bit of a handful to have around, considering she thinks everyone is living in sin and her anger results in blood coming out of the wall. It was not nice what she did to Sam's dad and his girlfriend, even though it opened a line of communication between him and Sam. It's not like Sam could easily explain the blood on the wall without sounding cuckoo bananas (the ghosts watch Degrassi so they'll get what I mean there). However, I think she may be the key to taking down Elias and reversing the contract he has with Jay. Let's hope! Also, I love how she says her name in that menacing way.
Stephanie: She's a bit of a brat. I mean, it horribly sucks how she died, but she's just so mean to everyone all the time. I didn't like how she was bullying Sam in her first appearance on the show. She also made Sam and Jay look foolish in front of Tad. (Good thing that happened on 4/20.) However, I felt bad for her that Ralph was sucked off before they got a chance to really be together.
Joan: I really like her as a partner for Sass. Her personality and moxie are great and she totally gives off the feel for the time period she lived during. It's funny how she has no patience for certain people, like Trevor and Sam.
Bela: Jay's sister is probably one of my favorite side characters. She's a lot of fun and has a great personality. I love that she believes Sam about being able to see and talk to ghosts and that she supports her in that. I don't like Eric for her and I can tell she's not fully invested in that relationship. He's nice and all, but I feel like she needs a living version of Trevor or that she and Kyle should eventually get together.
Notable guest appearances:
Chip Zien as Trevor's Father (He was the Baker in Into the Woods; the same cast as Bernadette Peters.)
Laraine Newman as Trevor's Mother (from old school Saturday Night Live)
Drew Tarver as Micah (He was the lead on The Other Two, while Brandon Scott Jones was his best friend. He's now on Running Point.)
Mark Linn Baker as Farnsby (Larry from Perfect Strangers)
Nichole Sakura as Jessica, the car ghost (I recognized her from Maggie, but I heard she's on Superstore.)
Allegra Edwards as Donna (She plays Ingrid on Upload.)
Andrew Leeds as Eric (Zoe's Extraordinary Playlist. A Million Little Things. So many other shows.)
Tara Reid as herself (American Pie)
John Reynolds as Nico, the guy who thought Jay murdered Carol (Search Party. Four Weddings and a Funeral. A bunch of other shows.)
Gideon Adlon as Abby (She is sisters with Odessa A'zion who plays Stephanie and Pamela Adlon is her mom.)
Lindura as Ashley on It's Getting Hot in Here (Sydney on Sullivan's Crossing.)
Rachael Harris as Sam's mom (Bit roles in almost too many shows to count!)
Ben Feldman as Kyle (He's on Superstore too.)
Sakina Jaffrey as Jay's mom (She played Mindy and Rishi's mom on The Mindy Project, which means she's been the mom to two of Utkarsh's characters. She's been in countless other shows and movies.)
Rob Huebel as Ari, Trevor's "friend" (I recognize him from The Goldbergs and Sex Lives of College Girls.)
Nat Faxon as Hamilton (I remember him from Friends from College, but I know he's been in a lot of other things I've seen.)
Rose Abdoo as the director of Dumb Deaths (She's recently been on Hacks, but I have seen her in so many other shows. I loved her on Reboot.)
Joe LoTruglio as the restaurant critic (I remember him best from Wet Hot American Summer and the TV series about that movie.)
Favorite episodes:
So many episodes have so many great things going on, so it's hard to choose from all of them. I did narrow it down a bit though!
Any of the episodes where someone gets possessed by a ghost. I'm eagerly awaiting more possessions in the upcoming seasons! I also love all the Halloween episodes.
Pete's Wife (season 1): Just for the ending scene alone, but it was also a fun introduction to Carol.
Sam's Mom (season 1): The restaurant dialogue was hilarious. Especially when Sam is accusing her mom of lying so she can get sucked off but the waiter thinks Sam is talking to Jay. This episode also was the introduction to Nancy!
Jay's Sister (season 1): Introduction to Bela, and we got to see a different side to Trevor.
Trevor's Pants (season 1): The story behind the hero move.
Attic Girl (season 1): While Stephanie is a troublemaker, I did enjoy the ghost prom and the She's All That moment.
The Polterguest (season 3): This also had the dual bachelor parties, which were really the highlight of the episode. I also found the term for the poltergeist switching bodies to be hilarious.
The Work Retreat (season 4): I was laughing so hard I couldn't see straight! I also love how Trevor became a legend for his hero move. I commented about this on an Instagram post and I've never seen a comment I've made get so many likes! This is where it is at as of posting time today:
Thorapy 2: Abandonment Issues (season 4): So many hilarious moments with the therapy sessions. I also loved how Pete went to find out about why Thor was abandoned.
The Bachelorette Party (season 4): I love how Alberta connected with Alicia through singing. I cried from that part. Plus, Sass as a country singer in Alicia's dream was perfection!
Stuff I wonder about:
If ghosts who died outside of the mansion can live in there, then why did they need to move Todd out of the mansion when he was potentially dying? If he died outside, he'd still have access.
How was Flower able to shut the door to the vault if she can't physically touch anything? Even if it's not the same as the wall, it seems like it should be able to move unless a living touches it.
If Trevor can physically touch people (like his brother with the ear thing), why does he need to possess someone to be with Bela? Or would that be weird if he didn't...
If Chris can roam because of his skydiving power, wouldn't he have the same issue as Pete with body parts disappearing if he's not back to home base within a certain amount of time? I doubt he has the amount of immunity that Joan does.
What is the criteria for getting sucked off? Not that I want the main (or even some side) ghosts getting sucked off anytime soon (it was hard enough when I thought Flower was gone for good), but it just seems so random.
Finally, some social media pages I frequent that are connected to Ghosts:
The Sucked Off: Great group on Facebook where you can connect with other Ghosts fans.
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Love your post! It's such a fantastic show.
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